Posts in Seasonal Reflections
When things fall apart, follow the sardines

April had a plan, and then it didn't.

What followed was a week of going quiet — yoga mat, meditation, early nights, the deliberate choice not to replace a feeling with a strategy. And then, slowly, something shifted. New plans emerged. A different direction opened. The energy that had been sitting in disappointment became fuel.

This is the article I wrote in the middle of that process. It is about adaptability as a biological principle and a way of being. About metabolic flexibility — the body's capacity to shift fuel sources when the primary one runs out. About a three-day sardine fast that led me, unexpectedly, toward carnivore and ketogenic eating after a decade as a vegetarian. And about what all of it has in common.

The adaptation gap is uncomfortable. It is also, it turns out, the point.

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When the body does not feel safe

A personal reflection on how the body can carry survival memories across generations, and why behaviours that look like food cravings or loss of control are often rooted in deeper nervous system responses. Through the lens of an elemental diet experience, this piece explores how safety, awareness, and curiosity can help us understand the patterns beneath our behaviours and support more compassionate healing.

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